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It is very easy to miss out some things when you are looking out for
whom to marry especially when you are confused with false care,
sweet words and pretense. Many ladies usually get lost in this kind of
euphoria without knowing what to look out for. I write this article to
help some ladies who gets confuse between love and lust, purpose and
pleasure. Carefully read the following category if that man that is all
over you has any of these traits.
1. The control freak
He is a guy that has so much money to spend on phone bills. He
monitors your movements every here and there. Not because he cares,
but for fear of losing you (unsecured). He determines where you
should go and checks you up all the time. He doesn't give you a
breathing space or make you feel secured. He is all over you all the
time and is extremely jealous, he disrespects your values in life and
you opinion does not really count. He wants you to disconnect from
your friends and family members and focus only on him. Such guy is a
wrong guy!
2. A sex freak
Any guy who cannot delay gratification or tame his intimate urge but
wants everything from you even before marriage needs to be sexually
diagnosed. He wants early sex and other intimate exploration of your
body. He doesn't believe in intimate purity or no sex until marriage.
Mind you, once he gets all he wants, he will move on to that other lady
that keeps herself pure and tells you you're cheap. Before he does
that, flee!
3. The secretive man (FBI)
We all have secrets from our past but there are some secrets that
would be detrimental to your relationship in the future. If he hides
everything about his past from, or doesn't open up to you, then you'll
be walking with him into an unknown world. If all you know about him
can be summarized in one sentence, you are heading in the wrong
direction. Relationship requires transparency, oneness and openness.
4. The complainer
Any man who cannot take responsibility for his life but blames
everyone for his challenges except himself is not worth your hand in
marriage! He may also not take responsibility for his marriage! If you
do, he would end up blaming you for the predicament you brought
into his life even though it was a result of his deed. It is better to live in
the corner of a rooftop than to dwell with a complainer.
5. A Perfectionist
A man who is a fault-finder and a perfectionist is difficult to please. In
his world, there is no room for mistakes of any magnitude and if you
make a mistake, be ready for harsh criticism. He would expect you to
be perfect in all you do and would easily pick your fault. This kind of
people will be difficult to please because you cannot meet up with his
overly perfect standards.
6. The Lazy dude
Never consider getting married to a lazy man who does not have a
realistic vision for his life! A man who is going nowhere will lead his wife
nowhere! A man's responsibility is to provide leadership and direction
to his family! On the other hand, when a woman with vision marries a
man without vision, she naturally becomes the leader of the home
which will eventually lead to conflict or disorder! Believe me; it does
not work out well in marriage!
7. The Anti-spiritual fella
Never marry a man who does not have a relationship with God unless
you too do not have one. When I mean relationship, it goes beyond
going to church on Sundays or becoming a member of one
denomination. A man/woman who loves and respect the Lord will love
and respect you in obedience to the Lord!
8. The Explosive Agent
Be mindful of a man who is hot tempered, if he flares up because of
the things that are insignificant or at a slightest provocation, it is
dangerous getting married to him. Anybody with this trait could be
aggressive, physically abusive and unpredictable in marriage. Mind
you, for the fact he hits the wall or bang the table doesn't mean he
won't beat you when you marry. A man who cannot control his/her
temper is a time-bomb waiting to detonate!
9. The Extravagant man
Here is a man who lives a luxury life even if it would cost him to borrow
to ensure that he satisfies his cravings. He spends lavishly or buys
thing that are of no value just to satisfy his pleasure. At times, he is the
type that works for his money but he ends up using it to live in
pleasure without having a plan for his future. If you marry such man,
he will be comfortable in living in a rented apartment without planning
to build or buy a house.
10. The Unmannered dude
Never get married to a man who does not respect constituted
authority but delights in breaking the law. He jumps queue, evade tax
or uses the wrong lane when driving. His actions might land you and
your kids in prison one day. Also if he does not have respect for your
parents or your relatives may hardly respect you. If he yells at you or
verbally insults you, there's no how he won't treat your parent in such
manner.
11. The Stingy Man
This issue is sensitive and I'll describe him for you to understand. He
works hard and earns much but finds it very difficult to give you part
of his dime. He's glad you're working but would never give you
anything as gift or a token. A man is meant to be provider a miser. If in
a relationship he doesn't give or pay for your hair-do, it will affect you
and the children when you marry him.
whom to marry especially when you are confused with false care,
sweet words and pretense. Many ladies usually get lost in this kind of
euphoria without knowing what to look out for. I write this article to
help some ladies who gets confuse between love and lust, purpose and
pleasure. Carefully read the following category if that man that is all
over you has any of these traits.
1. The control freak
He is a guy that has so much money to spend on phone bills. He
monitors your movements every here and there. Not because he cares,
but for fear of losing you (unsecured). He determines where you
should go and checks you up all the time. He doesn't give you a
breathing space or make you feel secured. He is all over you all the
time and is extremely jealous, he disrespects your values in life and
you opinion does not really count. He wants you to disconnect from
your friends and family members and focus only on him. Such guy is a
wrong guy!
2. A sex freak
Any guy who cannot delay gratification or tame his intimate urge but
wants everything from you even before marriage needs to be sexually
diagnosed. He wants early sex and other intimate exploration of your
body. He doesn't believe in intimate purity or no sex until marriage.
Mind you, once he gets all he wants, he will move on to that other lady
that keeps herself pure and tells you you're cheap. Before he does
that, flee!
3. The secretive man (FBI)
We all have secrets from our past but there are some secrets that
would be detrimental to your relationship in the future. If he hides
everything about his past from, or doesn't open up to you, then you'll
be walking with him into an unknown world. If all you know about him
can be summarized in one sentence, you are heading in the wrong
direction. Relationship requires transparency, oneness and openness.
4. The complainer
Any man who cannot take responsibility for his life but blames
everyone for his challenges except himself is not worth your hand in
marriage! He may also not take responsibility for his marriage! If you
do, he would end up blaming you for the predicament you brought
into his life even though it was a result of his deed. It is better to live in
the corner of a rooftop than to dwell with a complainer.
5. A Perfectionist
A man who is a fault-finder and a perfectionist is difficult to please. In
his world, there is no room for mistakes of any magnitude and if you
make a mistake, be ready for harsh criticism. He would expect you to
be perfect in all you do and would easily pick your fault. This kind of
people will be difficult to please because you cannot meet up with his
overly perfect standards.
6. The Lazy dude
Never consider getting married to a lazy man who does not have a
realistic vision for his life! A man who is going nowhere will lead his wife
nowhere! A man's responsibility is to provide leadership and direction
to his family! On the other hand, when a woman with vision marries a
man without vision, she naturally becomes the leader of the home
which will eventually lead to conflict or disorder! Believe me; it does
not work out well in marriage!
7. The Anti-spiritual fella
Never marry a man who does not have a relationship with God unless
you too do not have one. When I mean relationship, it goes beyond
going to church on Sundays or becoming a member of one
denomination. A man/woman who loves and respect the Lord will love
and respect you in obedience to the Lord!
8. The Explosive Agent
Be mindful of a man who is hot tempered, if he flares up because of
the things that are insignificant or at a slightest provocation, it is
dangerous getting married to him. Anybody with this trait could be
aggressive, physically abusive and unpredictable in marriage. Mind
you, for the fact he hits the wall or bang the table doesn't mean he
won't beat you when you marry. A man who cannot control his/her
temper is a time-bomb waiting to detonate!
9. The Extravagant man
Here is a man who lives a luxury life even if it would cost him to borrow
to ensure that he satisfies his cravings. He spends lavishly or buys
thing that are of no value just to satisfy his pleasure. At times, he is the
type that works for his money but he ends up using it to live in
pleasure without having a plan for his future. If you marry such man,
he will be comfortable in living in a rented apartment without planning
to build or buy a house.
10. The Unmannered dude
Never get married to a man who does not respect constituted
authority but delights in breaking the law. He jumps queue, evade tax
or uses the wrong lane when driving. His actions might land you and
your kids in prison one day. Also if he does not have respect for your
parents or your relatives may hardly respect you. If he yells at you or
verbally insults you, there's no how he won't treat your parent in such
manner.
11. The Stingy Man
This issue is sensitive and I'll describe him for you to understand. He
works hard and earns much but finds it very difficult to give you part
of his dime. He's glad you're working but would never give you
anything as gift or a token. A man is meant to be provider a miser. If in
a relationship he doesn't give or pay for your hair-do, it will affect you
and the children when you marry him.
